As the title suggests, this is a very dangerous game. At first we are innocent, and then we meet someone who is a little smarter and cunning as compared to us, we are manipulated and used because of their convenience. This is a dangerous phase, because we teach ourselves that using someone for convenience is right and this is how the world works. Well, this is where we dig the grave for our pure soul and pollute ourselves.

It is as important not to use anyone’s emotions for our convenience as it is to not offer ourselves to be used. We may have been wronged, as they say, forgive not forget. And.. do not get me wrong, we forgive for ourselves, our peace and our ease. Do not be in a misconception that you are doing the culprit a favor by forgiving. You are not great for them!you do yourself a favor…

Also, it is equally important to understand and remember the pain of that hurt of being used. That is what will either propel you or stop you from doing the same to someone more vulnerable .. just like you were at some point in time. The decision is yours!